The Apostle Paul in his letter to the church at Ephesus includes the following prayer to the readers:
“I pray that according to the riches of his glory, he may grant that you may be strengthened in your inner being with power through his Spirit, and that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith, as you are being rooted and grounded in love. I pray that you may have the power to comprehend, with all the saints, what is the breadth and length and height and depth, and to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, so that you may be filled with all the fulness of God.” (Ephesians 3:16-19).
What a powerful prayer Paul gave to the Ephesian saints! In looking forward from that time to the present, how do we measure the extent of Christ’s love to us? Is it by the physical measurements of breadth, length, height, and depth or is it by something more intangible?
I personally measure Christ’s love to myself through feelings I receive when I worship, or am singing sacred songs, or I am reading an inspirational scripture or text. I also measure Christ’s love towards me when I receive inspiration in preparing for ministry either by giving a talk, giving a prayer of blessing or writing an editorial for the Australian Mission Newsletter. Again, I also sense Christ’s love when I am providing personal ministry to someone who wants to share what they are encountering in their lives at that time.
Let me tell you a simple story illustrating the meaning of Christ’s love. This happened one Sunday after church when a little boy looked up at his dad and asked, “Daddy, how does Jesus love us?” His father answered, “Son, Jesus loves us with an unconditional love.”
The lad thought for a moment and then asked, “Daddy, what kind of love is unconditional love?” After a few minutes of silence his father answered, “Do you remember the two boys who used to live next door to us and the cute little puppy they got last Christmas?” “Yes.” “Do you remember how they used to tease it, throw sticks and even rocks at it?” “Yes.” “Do you also remember how the puppy would always greet them with a wagging tail and would try to lick their faces?” “Yes.” “Well, that puppy had an unconditional love for those two boys. They certainly didn’t deserve his love for them because they were mean to him. But he loved them anyway.”
The father then made his point: “Jesus’ love for us is unconditional. Men threw rocks at him and hit him with sticks. They even killed him. But Jesus loved them anyway.”
Elisabeth Kubler-Ross MD in her book The Wheel of Life wrote: “I’ve never met a person whose greatest need was anything other than real, unconditional love. There is no mistaking love. You feel it in your heart. It is the common fibre of life, the flame that heats our soul, energizes our spirit and supplies passion to our lives. It is our connection to God and to each other.”
I believe it’s important for us to continually remember that Christ lives in our hearts, not as a temporary guest, but as a life-long resident who changes and transforms us with love beyond understanding. Paul’s words express his deep wish for that character to shine forth as Christ’s indwelling Spirit of love through our individual lives. Paul prays that we come to understand the greatness (the breadth, length, height, and depth) of Divine love, so that we can live in the fullness of that gift.
-Bill Gillard